Terri Barnes

Spouse Calls

Join the conversation with Stripes columnist Terri Barnes, as she explores issues relevant to the lives of military spouses.

Make new friends ... keep the old

After our families, what is more important in the lives of military spouses than our friends? Sometimes making new friends at a new place is hard. (See Spouse Calls June 3.) Saying good bye is even harder. How do you stay in touch with far away friends? Do you stay in touch? I hope you do.

Why are your military spouse friends important to you? Mine have helped me pack, move, clear quarters, take care of sick children, cry over spilled milk, make Christmas cookies, celebrate the holidays in foreign places ... you name it. Tell me about yours ...

Gaeta Italy

Looking for friends that live in now or used to live there.My wife and I ( Phill & Carla Patty ) lived there from 1980 to 1984.Well really miss it.....Maybe someday we can return...if we win the lottery !!!!

Getting together

Reuniting with old friends helps take the sting out of sad farewells. I hope that you and your wife can get connected with some of your friends from Italy!

Terri